The honeymoon phase can be described as constant euphoria and idealization of the partner, where:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- You spend time together doing romantic and goofy things<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Just start to learn about each other\u2019s personalities<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- The other person becomes the center of your life<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- You forgive and ignore potential red flags<\/a> super easily<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
In terms of the timeframes, it\u2019s really hard to tell. Some (overly pessimistic people, in our opinion) say that a honeymoon can\u2019t last more than 6 months, but there are couples who report that they\u2019ve been in this euphoric stage for well over a year, even close to two years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uncertainty or doubt phase<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nOnce the initial euphoric phase wears off a little, some couples move on to the next phase which is often referred to as the uncertainty or the doubt phase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Note: Not all couples will face this, some move straight to the next phase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remember this time when your partner\u2019s little habits and routines first started to annoy you? Like, when they leave dishes in the sink for days or don\u2019t wipe the bathroom floor after they shower, things like that. The uncertainty stage is all about those small, seemingly silly annoyances that we suddenly discover in our partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Typically, at this point in the relationship, the couple is likely to have mild arguments or miscommunications about those issues and annoyances, but they rarely turn into something big just because of the nature of the issue. Like, who would actually throw a huge fight about minor things? Psycho much? That\u2019s also a perfect time to talk through your boundaries and find out those of your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adjustment stage or disillusionment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
After the uncertainty stage, the couple moves on to the adjustment stage. Now that\u2019s where the real trouble can begin, and many break up<\/a> at this point too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t be too alarmed though! Just because some people break up here, doesn\u2019t mean you will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The disillusionment that often occurs here is associated with deep-rooted incompatibilities that aren\u2019t as easy to sort, for example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Cultural differences<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Religious beliefs<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Priorities in life (career, family, etc)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Stance on having kids<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Your ability to discuss, negotiate, and agree on these matters will be key to whether you overcome potential deal breakers or not. Also, now is the time when the person\u2019s not-so-great qualities might be shining through. We talk about silent treatment, gaslighting, pushing their anger deep down only to lash out at something else later. And this goes both ways. At this point in the relationship, you might learn something about yourself too, and it can be unpleasant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
By the way, that\u2019s when you might realize that you\u2019re dating a narcissistic sociopath because the timeline for the adjustment stage is roughly 2+ years since you first become an item. This means that enough time has passed for you to spot patterns, plus they get tired of acting and start to show their true self. So, don\u2019t be alarmed, but watch out for signs!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Commitment stage<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nThe commitment stage can start at different times, but you\u2019d typically expect to see it after two years of the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At this point, the couple gets properly comfortable with one another, and they begin to see this romance as a long-term commitment. That\u2019s when most differences and difficulties from the previous stages are dealt with, and the couple develops a strong emotional intimacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
During the commitment stage, some share that their sexual desires seem to go away which can push the couple away from each other too. If you\u2019re already in this position, there are things you can do to rebound your sexual attraction:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Talk. Sometimes communication is a buzzkill, but it can be the savior too. You\u2019ve been with your partner long enough to be able to speak about your sexual needs, preferences, and fantasies.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Find out if there\u2019s anything that bothers you two about the relationship. You don\u2019t need to be on good terms to have great sex, but it helps your long-term intimacy if you guys resolve relationship problems that kill the mood and make you not want to be in the hands of your lover.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Plan a romantic escape. Going away on a sexy trip together will not fix everything once and for all, but it can serve as a reboot. Just don\u2019t take the kids, friends, or relatives with you!<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Try new things together. It can be something hot, like tango classes, or geeky and boring. The key is that you do this thing together for the first time. The joint experience and camaraderie that it creates will make you see each other from a different angle which, in turn, will help you get your horny back.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
Acceptance stage<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The final acceptance stage typically starts with the fifth year together. Here, the lives of the partners are fully merged, and they experience an unreal closeness. Couples that reach that stage often say that their lover is also their best friend, and, unlike in the earlier stages, they fully know what they\u2019re talking about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
From now on, the couple can continue to strengthen their bond, grow together, and build a family. What you should keep in mind though, is that breakups still happen at later stages of the relationship. And when they do, it hurts a lot, almost as if you\u2019re grieving the person. So, not to be a Debbie Downer, but you should always remember to have your own life. Don\u2019t morph completely into the relationship, keep your individual hobbies, work, social circles, whatever it is that will keep your life more rich and fulfilling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Final thoughts on relationship stages<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Falling in love is not the same as moving along the relationship stages with your partner. Some elements of being a couple are literally perfect, but others \u2013 not so much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re currently going through a rough patch, we want you to remember why you\u2019ve been attracted to this person to begin with. How successfully you\u2019ll be able to weather the storm depends on your dedication, emotional availability, and willingness to communicate openly and sincerely. There\u2019s no manual for how relationships need to be handled, but we believe that you\u2019ll find the best way out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you\u2019re currently in the greatest of moods and enjoying your relationship beyond belief \u2013 great! We hope it will go on like this for you, and if you\u2019re ready to take the next steps \u2013 they\u2019ll soon follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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